i dont like the feeling of being fooled or deceived. so imagine how i absolutely abhor being fooled a second time. so you can see how i dont really understand couples who can break up and then get back together again and expect the relationships to last forever. obviously what separated them in the first place were so significant, they caused the relationships to become unsalvagable.
there are few cases:
being cheated on. <-- if he/she cheated on you the first time.....its bound to happen again. lets face it. PEOPLE DONT CHANGE. if you didnt matter to him/her the first time around. chances are you wont matter much now.
partner is too controlling. <-- guess what? he/she hasnt changed. they'll say how they've changed and promise to be less intense now. but...truth is...[get the trend?]
long distance relationships. <-- he/she said that they cant keep up with the grueling long distance [truth: too much temptation, and you're not worth all the other fishes in the sea]. thus, you two break up. now the distance has shrunk and he/she wants you back. ummm. if they truthfully valued you in the first place, he/she wouldnt have dropped the bomb on you.
all in all. its a matter of faith in your partner. sometimes they fail you. sometimes they dont. and we have different coping mechanisms. some of us nobly follow our instincts. some of us refuse to believe in second chances.
which one are you?
Saturday, July 4, 2009
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not me but my friend
i was shocked that he got back with his ex.
he broke it off the last time cos he saw his girl
with another guy..im clueless now as to why
he got back with her the 3rd time. -.-
long distance relationship.
urgh!
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